True story—never in my life did I expect to become a mom. If you had asked me in my twenties, I wouldn’t have said motherhood was part of my future plans. Not because I didn’t want children, but simply because I hadn’t given it much thought.
Well, the universe has its own direction and four kids later, here I am. And what an unexpected gift it has been.
Motherhood has opened up an entirely new lens through which I see the world. It’s given me fresh eyes and a deeper sense of purpose. It’s motivated me to do things I never imagined I could or would do (like willingly holding a snake for fun without losing my mind). And yes, it also tests my limits—there’s a lot of hormonal energy in my house right now: perimenopause, teenagers, pre-teens… you get the picture.
But I digress.
It’s not just motherhood, it’s life. Life calls us to find balance. Not the kind of perfect balance that feels like a tightrope act, but the kind that feels right for you. As Khalil Gibran wrote, “Let there be spaces in your togetherness.” That space isn’t just something we need from our kids, it’s something we need from everything.
We need pauses.
We need reflection.
We need renewal.
These don’t have to be grand gestures—though I’ll never say no to a spa day. For me, it’s often in the small rituals that I find my grounding: washing my face, steaming my hair, massaging in one of our Cher-Mère facial oils or serums, giving some TLC to the soles of my feet and elbows with body butter. Sometimes it's a quiet walk. Sometimes it’s just a few deep breaths from the car to the front door.
These moments matter.
The Benefits of Self-Care & Spa Rituals
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s science-backed. Research shows that taking time for yourself:
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Reduces stress and improves mood by regulating cortisol levels.
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Improves cardiovascular health through relaxation practices like massage and steam therapy.
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Boosts skin health when using nutrient-rich products like serums, oils, and body butters.
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Enhances emotional resilience, helping you manage the many demands of life, including parenting.
Regular spa treatments, such as facials, massages, or body scrubs, also promote:
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Improved circulation and detoxification
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Lymphatic drainage for reduced puffiness and inflammation
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Cell regeneration for brighter, more youthful skin
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Muscle tension relief, aiding better sleep and overall well-being
Treat Yourself—or Someone You Love
Whether you’re a mother, a caregiver, or simply someone giving your all—you deserve a pause. And if you’re looking for a little help with that, we’ve got some beautiful Mother’s Day options designed to help you or a loved one recharge, renew, and reconnect with self.
From nourishing spa packages to at-home self-care essentials, Cher-Mère offers natural, thoughtful ways to treat the body and soul—because taking care of yourself is the first step to caring for everything else.
Give yourself the love and care you need—today and every day.
You’ve earned it.